What is RELOK and Can It Help Me?
RELOK Is for Everyone Who Wants to Achieve a Goal
The RELOK Formula
REason
Start by asking yourself: Why do you want to achieve this goal?
What is your bigger why? Your raison d’être—what makes this goal so important to you? Reflect on the motivation that drives you.
Some may use the word “purpose” here. I prefer to simplify it. It’s your reason for pursuing this particular goal.
Importantly, the reason must come from within you—not from society, or people around you.
The clearer you are about your deeper why, the more likely you are to succeed.
LOve
Next, ask yourself: Do you genuinely love the goal you’re envisioning?
Take a moment to assess whether this goal stems from your personal belief, desire, and conviction—or from someone else’s.
Do you activate your love for the goal using your reason? Does it stir your curiosity and get you out of bed in the morning?
Think about the people around you—are you surrounding yourself with those who share your passion? Are they lifting you up?
Sometimes, self-doubt can cover the love you have for your goal. If the love isn’t immediately clear, search for it.
Because without love, the goal remains just a dream.
Knowledge
Now that you’ve clarified your reason and deepened your love, it’s time for the third step: knowledge.
What do you need to learn to make this goal a reality?
Explore the ways you can gain that knowledge—and where to find it.
How much time are you willing to invest?
And what strengths do you need to grow and develop to support your goal?
What I’m discovering is that authentic coaching is all about engaging others in self-directed learning.
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Dorice Horenstein, renowned as the “Oy to Joy” International Champion Catalyst Speaker, transforms tactics into practical strategies! As a Positive Intelligence expert and best-selling author of Moments of the Heart: Four Relationships Everyone Should Have to Live Wholeheartedly, Dorice energizes and motivates global audiences to uncover their inner champions. With a background in educational leadership, she has made the world her platform, fostering positive cultures by empowering individuals to overcome challenges, build resilience, and find joy, leading to personal and professional growth.
Dorice is a dynamic speaker whose energy and charisma have a global impact. Her core superpower is her ability to present, train, and coach effectively. She redefines “T.E.A.M.” as “Together Everyone’s Attributes are Magnified,” inspiring others to recognize their strengths, enhance effectiveness, and joyfully step into their destined leadership roles. Her mission is to cultivate healthy, positive relationships that reduce stress, increase retention rates, and create a more positive culture both at work and at home.
