I just returned from the National Speakers Association (NSA) conference, where over 4,000 top national speakers gathered. It was an impressive experience, but also quite intimidating. At times, my saboteurs took over, making me question, “Can I do this? Will I be as successful? Everyone seems more accomplished than me.” Despite these feelings, they are not true or logical. Today, I want to explore how the power of perspective and hope can build resilience and help you achieve your goals.
Why Perspective Matters
Imagine seeing someone excel in your field. While you may feel happy for their success, you might also experience insecurity or envy, thinking, “Do I have what it takes to do what they do?” This kind of self-talk is unproductive.
Adopting a positive perspective helps you view opportunities instead of obstacles, enhancing problem-solving skills and overall happiness. By practicing Positive Intelligence (PQ) and leaning into my Sage, I asked myself, “Why can’t I achieve what they have?” The answer is, you can—just do it your way, based on your vision for yourself.
The Big Aha Moment
While pursuing speaking or helping others, remember that you do it for yourself as well. Serving others benefits you in the long run. For instance, financial investors and real estate agents serve others but also gain from their work. Similarly, by opening minds to solutions, exploring joy, and providing mental fitness training, I gain experiences, meet new people, and live my purpose.
What’s In It For Me (WIIFM)?
Applying the WIIFM principle to my NSA experience revealed numerous benefits. Learning from top experts and their shared best practices is invaluable. I get new ideas about where to speak and gain insights into the industry. This perspective shift has transformed my approach, showing me that the sky is the limit.
The Power of Perspective and Hope
Perspective shapes how we interpret experiences. Shifting to a positive outlook involves reframing challenges as growth opportunities and seeing the bigger picture. Combined with hope—the belief in a better future—this approach fuels motivation and perseverance.
Interesting Findings
- People who practice positive reframing are more resilient and less stressed.
- A growth mindset views challenges as learning opportunities.
- Hopeful individuals are more resilient and experience less chronic stress.
- Shifting perspective helps identify new solutions and opportunities.
What You Can Do
- Practice Positive Self-Talk: Replace negative thoughts with constructive ones.
- Look for the Silver Lining: Ask yourself, “What can I learn from this situation?”
- Set Small Goals: Achieve small milestones to maintain progress and hope.
Advice
Try this: “Instead of focusing on what’s going wrong, focus on learning and growth.” Say this: “I will view challenges from a new angle and remind myself of the hope for a brighter future.”
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Dorice Horenstein is an internationally recognized resilience speaker known as the “Oy to Joy” Resilience Speaker. She transforms lives through Positive Intelligence, guiding individuals and organizations to unlock their inner strength.
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As always,
Be Yourself, Be Positive, Be the Champion You Want to Be
