When I left my career in education six years ago, I made a conscious decision to focus on talking, presenting, and influencing adults. For 30 years, until 2018, I dedicated myself to motivating, influencing, and educating youth—middle school, high school, and college students. While I found immense joy in this work, I realized that parents hold the greatest influence over their children. Therefore, I shifted my attention to empowering adults and parents, aiming to help them incorporate my messages into their interactions and parenting.
Rediscovering My Passion for Youth Education
However, during two recent talks at the RYLA (Rotary Youth Leadership Association) Retreat, I was reminded of why I spent three decades in young education. Speaking to young adults aged 18 to 30, who are stepping into leadership roles, reignited my passion. The energy in the room was palpable, and the heartfelt conversations left me with goosebumps. I was reminded that both young and older audiences need to hear my messages.
The Importance of Making the Best Choices
One key message I emphasized was the importance of making the best choice for YOURSELF. I introduced my six-step playbook from my upcoming book, “CHOOSING,” set to be released in early 2025. These young adults, at the beginning of their lives yet already carrying so much, were open and emotional during our discussions. It was a gift to witness how they brought their wisdom into the space, fostering empathy and compassion toward their teammates.
A Transformative Experience
After the “CHOOSING” discussion, we had a 90-minute conversation about their saboteurs, which illuminated the room—both literally and figuratively. The positive energy was electrifying, and I saw many lightbulbs light up as realizations clicked into place.
The Unexpected Rewards of Giving
When the Rotary Club approached me to volunteer my services, I did not anticipate gaining so much in return. But, as is often the case, the more you give, the more you receive. Sometimes, you do not know your WIIFM—WHAT’S IN IT FOR ME—until it becomes clear. My heart is full, and witnessing a change in someone’s life right in front of my eyes is an incredible blessing.
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About Dorice Horenstein
Dorice Horenstein, renowned as the “Oy to Joy” International Resilience Speaker, transforms tactics into practical strategies! As a Positive Intelligence expert and best-selling author of Moments of the Heart: Four Relationships Everyone Should Have to Live Wholeheartedly, Dorice energizes and motivates global audiences to uncover their inner champions.
With a background in educational leadership, she has made the world her platform, fostering positive cultures by empowering individuals to overcome challenges, build resilience, and find joy. This approach leads to both personal and professional growth. Dorice is a dynamic speaker whose energy and charisma have a global impact.
Her core superpower is her ability to present, train, and coach effectively. She redefines “T.E.A.M.” as “Together Everyone’s Attributes are Magnified,” inspiring others to recognize strengths and embrace leadership with joy.
Her mission is to cultivate healthy, positive relationships that reduce stress, increase retention rates, and create a more positive culture both at work and at home. For more insights and tools on building your resilience and tapping into your sage mind, visit doricehorenstein.com. Stay connected and keep growing!
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Be yourself, be positive, and be the champion you aspire to be.
